March 2007


As many of you may know, selecting THE color (or colors) for bridesmaid’s dresses has been quite the journey. Initially, I didn’t really care much about their dresses. My main priority was (and still is) for them to be happy, beautiful, confident, and comfortable. While I still want all of these things, I’ve come to realize how much their dress color drives the event’s coloring. Everyone looks to their dresses for cues to THE wedding colors. SO much pressure!! 

I want the whole wedding to have a very warm, welcoming vibe to it. We’re getting married on the 5th day of Christmas (5 golden rings), so we’ve thought about incorporating that, esp. in a logo. Also, I prefer gold to silver anyway. It’s just a much warmer metal, so we’re thinking gold accents.  My favorite color is orange but I couldn’t imagine putting my best friends in orange dresses. I do still want them to like me after this is all over! To bring in the orange without being garish, I’ve decided to use copper wire. Our centerpieces will be copper wire trees. (They came to me in a dream (no joke!). But that’s a whole number blog!) 

With all these different ideas, we’ve been through several different fabrics, in several different colors. Satins, tissue taffetas, crepe back satin in gold, sable, taupe, navy, burnt orange, crimson, black and FINALLY – dark rust.

This past Saturday, after a rather disappointing trip to Jefre Bridals in Green Brook, NJ, Mom and I took a little trip to 4th Street in Philly (commonly known as “Fabric Row”). The fabric stores on this strip are typically small with bolts upon bolts of fabric stuffed, stacked, and wedged in every possible corner. Not a place for the claustrophobic! We went through bolt after bolt and paged through sample book after sample book, studying our options.

In the 2nd store, Jack B.’s, we found it. On the bottom shelf, tucked behind a bolt of chocolate brown was a full bolt of “Dark Rust” crepe back satin. Yes that’s right ladies and gents – “dark rust”. It is the perfect color. A little red, a little coppery, with just enough orange undertone to make me happy. I’ve scanned in and uploaded a picture of said fabric. But be warned this picture does NOT, in any way shape or form, do justice to this fabric. It looks rich, luxurious and has a great luster. It’s also easy to work with, totally machine washable and only $7/yard. I think it’ll really compliment everyone’s skin tone.

THE bridesmaids fabric

What do you think ladies? I really hope you like it.

I know this begs the statement – but it’s only fabric, not a dress. You are correct and I hope you’re as excited as I am. Because I have picked a fabric, each one of you will be able to select (or design) the bridesmaids dress of your dreams! Each one of you is as different as you are perfect, so I couldn’t imagine you all in the same style (unless of course, that’s what you want).

Now’s your chance to browse designers, patterns, magazines and pictures. We will be purchasing the fabric and letting everyone make (or have made) their own dress. Since they’ll all be in the same color, I’ll get my warm color. But because each one will be different, your personalities will really shine through. Also, this should save you some money. (YAY saving money!)

We’ve added a new feature to our website – a photo album! Browse through pictures of us, our bridal party & family. It’s not anywhere near complete yet, but it’ll get there. If you have any pictures that you think we should have, PLEASE email them to us at robandcarrie@gmail.com.

I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT I DID IT !!!!!

“What did I do?” you may be asking yourself. Let me start at the beginning.

Back when we first got engaged, we had the idea to start a wedding website. My initial vision was somewhat basic. I wanted a place where everyone could get basic information about the wedding. You know, where, when, how to get there, etc… Rob suggested we should have a place where people could submit song requests to be added to a running reception playlist. Being completely illiterate as to how a website is made, I didn’t even know where to begin.

Enter John. (Rob’s buddy from the NBC page program.) He has made a few websites and offered to help us out. One fateful Sunday afternoon, he ventured into Newark and showed us the wonderful things you can do with the internet. He posted the 3rd draft of our save the date cards on robandcarrie.net and showed us a fabulous website called wordpress. It was also his brilliant idea to have a wedding blog. I’m going to steal that idea and tell everyone it was mine.

In the subsequent evenings, I started a blog on wordpress and messed around with the idea of “remapping the domain”. Our blog is hosted by a website named WordPress. In fact, our blog web address (or URL) was 2kidsfromjersey.wordpress.com. But we also owned the URL, robandcarrie.net. I wanted a way for our blog & website to become one. Now for “domain mapping”.

Domain mapping is where our blog is still hosted by wordpress.com, but it looks like it’s somewhere else – on another site (like robandcarrie.net). Basically, our blog has become our website. You can get to this site by either entering robandcarrie.net OR 2kidsfromjersey.wordpress.com.

It took me 2 nights to figure it out, but I did it! All by myself!! Ta-DA!!! (:::smiles proudly:::)

Welcome folks to robandcarrie.net, our wedding website. This is your central location for anything and everything relating to the wedding of the year! We are very excited to be the proud owners of this URL and hope you’ll check back often.

A BIG thank you to our friend John! He is really helping us get this website off the ground. And boy do we have big plans for it! Eventually, we will have all the wedding itinerary information up, as well as hotel accommodations. We’ll also have a Song Request page where you can make requests and add to the reception playlist!

Everyone grab your sharpie and mark your calendars - Saturday, December 29th 2007 – Rob & Carrie are gettin’ hitched!! You can also print out our very awesome save the date card, courtesy of the talented M. Buecs!

Keep checking the blog for updates and join us on the journey to the alter! I’m sure it’ll be interesting.

 We love you!

Save the Date!!

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